Promoting Our Courteous and Polite Child(ren)

First and foremost, parents should model the manners they want their children to have. Simply put, teach by example. Transform your dialog with those around you. Thank your spouse for making dinner. Always say a friendly hello to the greeter at a store you  enter. Be extra polite to the security guy. Your kids will think that's just how the world works!  Precious Treasures truly believes in and supports an amazing company that says it best “Be Good To People” see it for yourself click on http://www.begoodtopeople.com/

Here's 10 suggestions on how to raise well-mannered children:

1. Introduce and guide your children to master the “Magic Words” (please, thank you, etc.). Use them often and make sure they understand their meanings. When teaching “I’m sorry” – make certain children know it must be meaningful.

2. Promote the concept – “Be Good To People”. Using alternative words to name calling, compliments vs. bullying or treating others friendly vs. callously. Explain the rewards of being nice.

3. Reinforce respect – act respectfully towards your children, and demand respect from them. Identify ways to help children feel good about themselves (earned self-respect). Treat your child with the same respect you would show your spouse, co-worker or a friend. Respectful parenting is about finding ways to model behavior & set up reminders that are not shameful and do not put the child on the spot.

4. Foster and teach values – honesty, tolerance, sharing, empathy, compassion, gratefulness, kindness – embrace them!

5. Develop mealtime manners. It's a life skill that will continue to help children (and adults) be confident in all future social/dining experiences. These skills can make or break a business deal in the future.

6. Demonstrate and discuss the importance of making a difference in someone’s life. Exhibit charity and ask your children to participate with you. It will encourage your children to be grateful for what they have and make them aware that we can help improve the world and make it a better place for everyone.

7. Teach your child the art of social exchange – meeting and greeting, eye contact, body language, a firm handshake. These skills are essential for making friends and keeping them, being part of a group and socialization.

8. Outline rules for courteous behavior- be considerate when using cell phones, computers and the Internet.

9. Explain the importance of accepting responsibility and becoming personally accountable; this is an essential step towards independence.

10. Demonstrate respect for our planet – recycle, reuse grocery bags, turn lights off, don’t litter and conserve energy whenever possible.

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